Qualification

Slowly, as I spend more time socializing, I am able to actually feel a certain way based on which level of the game I am experiencing. I spent most of my life introverted and have been working to change that for the better part of 6 months now. It is now that I am able to identify a feeling, and understand where I'm at. Where one day I would have said comfort, I now know strongly that we are still big into attraction and qualification. Why? Because I'm finally at a point where I have to decide who I want to spend my time with on more than just a friendship level. So yes, I am going to qualify the shit out of this girl because if she's not going to do, I've got to move on.

I can look back retrospectively and see that I was big into qualification with the last girl, however I let my game fall apart and became totally hers, ditching some of my other girls to spend time with her. Needless to say I'm starting over with my mltr attempts.

Yes I still suck at Approaching, but that's because I totally disqualify the girl before hand. My reasoning goes: oh she's just here for the weekend, the week, whatever. For some reason I'm still looking for more long term social circle people, but when that changes I imagine I'll be fine with someone who isn't going to last. After all, most of the girls I've taken beyond S3 haven't lasted more than a few weeks due to either my decision, or there's, and only one has ended sour due to her own inner game issues. Plus now I'm mid move so the pad is definitely not up to my standards.. ugh. Hasn't really stopped me, but I like it when things are .. just right.

But I'm excited because for the first time, I know I'm in qual, I feel it, I know.