the video you posted the other day was very insightful to me.
your demo shows meeting a new woman on the street, starting from the initial approach. however what i took from the video was the way you two interacted at your coffee break. this past weekend i was out with one of my girls that i already met and have had several "dates" with, but her and i moved- from my perspective- really slowly. i still have approach anxiety, but slowly i am realizing that i am able to come up with good openers in all settings, and am starting to build confidence there. i believe this relationship has developed slowly because normally she is with her best friend and i have no wing, so they talk to each other super hyper all the time, and i just dont have enough material stacked to be able to keep them going for very long. so i just enjoy their banter, and it's absolutely amazing.
back to this weekend.
we sat down to watch the sunset together and were sitting close to each other and cuddly/cute, and afterwards we kept talking. using what i observed in the video, i moved over to lean against a tree (away from) while sitting on the bar stool and she did keep leaning in to talk. and i made sure to use my hands more than i normally do, and i had a great time. the best part is SP was being developed for myself with the other regulars, who already see me there with women all the time.
this community, no matter which flavor, absolutely rocks- thank you for your mentorship!
Edit: here is a link to the youtube video
and the url which i found at the attraction chronicles.
Monday, July 2, 2007
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