The Sister and the Cousin

So my friend's cousin is here visiting for a bit, she just turned 21 and you can tell by her body language that she doesn't go out much. A lot of what we do seems to surprise her, but she doesn't object to anything and enjoys it. Still kind of a culture shock to her.

Now his sister is straight up gaming me, but I'm too drunk to remember exactly what went down. But she said "holy shit no one's ever turned me down before" and she did _the backturn_! And I looked at the cousin, because I for some reason when drunk like to explain social dynamics to her, and she's new to this whole going out thing, and I said there it is!! look! it's the backturn!! oooh! Which causes sister to lose it. Lots of kino and disgusting amounts of porno dancing ensue. But you know the deal with the social circle, I leave it at that :) Good night.

However, I understand a little more about my inner game issues with spending so much $. It also has to do with tipping, which is fine- but as the night goes on I seem to tip more just because I don't want to carry the fucking quarters around, or I forget the girls are being nice for the sole purpose of getting tips. Even though we do have some level of beginning comfort because they see me at least once a week, and ask questions about me (name, etc).

My favorite bartender, turns out she's going for her masters. I tell her how it's not very often that you see a beautiful woman who is so intelligent and smart. I've known her for a little while, so we definitely moved into more of a comfort frame last night, talking about her personal life. And at which point she bought us some drinks. I loved her before, but now she is even more kickass... masters, hell yes!

This is definitely a one of a kind summer, and I'm totally loving it, and of course never want it to end- but it will. The people that I see, namely the foreign exchange students, and there are many, they will all be gone after this summer and I will never see them again. I'm going to miss the girls, most of them are very very beautiful, and their smiles always steal my heart. They've helped me be able to talk with beautiful women, just to talk to them, no resume bullshit, just good conversation.

I posted at the beginning of this year (elsewhere) that this was going to be a great year, and it has far exceeded my expectations and dreams so far.

That's all for now,
B